Not all relationships are created equal. Some of them, we find, can increase or decrease our self-esteem. If they're healthy, then you should feel rejuvenated and the best version of yourself. When it comes to entering a relationship, you should always be in a place of healthy self-esteem, and aim for a positive relationship that only elevates you and your feeling of self-worth and wellbeing.
Very often, I speak to clients who have lost sense of themselves in their relationships. They are feeling low, and unable to lift themselves up-- with no support from their partner to elevate them as well. Our partners should support us, allow us to be ourselves. Self-esteem is not meant to be beaten down in a relationship, to the point of non-existence.
To a larger degree, we're responsible for our own self-esteem. When we are adults, it's up to us alone to surround ourselves with positive, nurturing relationships that allow us to keep our feeling of self-worth high. Our willingness to tolerate and accept things in our relationship is our own responsibility. It will always be our choice-- never forced. We are not in control of how people treat us once we let them into our lives, but we are in control of whether they stay in our lives or not.
It's eternally true that if you are unable to love yourself, then there is just no way you are going to be able to love anyone else. You should love yourself as you love others. If you really think you are worthy of someone else’s love, how can you be so unlovable to yourself? It doesn’t make sense, does it?
Many of my clients ask me during my psychic readings if the person they love is right for them. This is a question I can answer of course, but it is disheartening at times, as a client should be able to know this deep within their souls.
You can’t be happy in a relationship with someone when your self esteem is at zero. It would be better to ask the psychic reader if the dynamics of your relationship can change so your self esteem (and happiness) can rise to higher levels.
All people in our lives affect our self-esteem, but this is more true for our romantic relationships. Do not wait around any longer if you notice your self-worth diminishing-- take action and get to the core of the problem. Call me for a psychic reading so I can guide to understand how dynamics of your relationship are affecting you-- and how to TAKE ACTION and GET YOUR POWER BACK.